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Blessings Beyond Measure
As I sit here and watch our wedding video again, I think of all the amazing things that have happened in the last several years and I am overwhelmed and, no shocker, tears have been running down my face. Our Almighty Heavenly Father is keeping His promises in ways, and to depths, not that long
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Welcome
We are Greg & Lynn Bruce and we’re glad you stopped by. Created To Be Free Mentoring is dedicated to helping men and women who are dealing with addiction, specifically sex addiction, to find freedom. If you know you have a problem but have no idea where to start, think you’re “all alone,” been “found
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About Us
This blog was accepted for publication by our Affiliate Partner, Covenant Eyes. I’m told, due to “googling” restrictions, I shouldn’t post the same blog in two different locations.I apologize for the additional link. You can find our story here.
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Communication
As I sat at the breakfast table a good many weeks ago I had a thought. Lynn and I had just finished our devotional in the Psalms (thank you, Dr. Keller – see the Resources tab) and it was a quiet moment. I looked at her eyes and realized she was reading the back of
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Molding or Chiseling?
Last week’s blog was an encouragement to find a “Freedom Process” where you and God can come to a mutual agreement that He is in charge, His Word is Law, He has a plan for your life, His plan for you is perfect, He forgives, He offers Freedom, He is Elohim, Jehovah AND Adonai (see
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Freedom Process
When I was “found out” on August 28th, 2015 and I very nearly destroyed everything I held dear, I wondered if God would really be there for me. As an addict I believed the lies I’d told myself and was convinced that He hated me, that I was too far gone and that He had
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Joy
I honestly don’t know where this post is going. I sit here with tears running down my cheeks as I grieve for Coraline, a beautiful Granddaughter I’ll never hold again, a daughter whose heart is broken, a broken-hearted man I hardly know, my darling wife and my entire family. And my heart says write about
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Tears
I like that God directs my writing. Since I’ve committed to a blog-a-week I pay closer attention to what’s going on around me, how it affects the people around me, what He’s doing every day and then I write. God touches whomever He sees fit – even if it is only me. Sometimes, an idea
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Rebuilder or Destroyer?
Into our lives come all kinds of bits of information. It comes from sources both expected and unexpected. Sometimes it’s trite and trivial but sometimes there comes a person or a movie or a book or something that absolutely alters the way you see … life. Yes. It can be that affective. I want to
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My god was too small
I have been formulating this blog post for quite a while now. I’ve been mulling it around in my head longer than I knew I was going to have a blog to put it in. It’s a concept that I’ve found critical in my Journey to Freedom. MY god was too small. Is your God
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“But YOU, Sovereign LORD …”
Some days God speaks to my heart in quiet moments with gentle Scriptures, subtly touching my heart until I hear. And other times His Word seems to roll over me, invoking my past, present and future like a clap of thunder making my heart quake but sit up and take notice. The last couple of
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Pornography and Adultery
As I sit and try to decide exactly where to start with my blogs I want to spend several of the first ones to lay out some basics of where I’m coming from and the foundation of a lot of my positions. I believe society has crept into the church, into our Spirituality and allowed
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Ephesians 5:21ff
I wrote this as an email to a Pastor friend of mine when he asked me how I view this particular passage now that I’m out of my addiction; he needed it for a sermon he was preparing. “Ben (not his real name) – I am no theologian. You know this. You’ve asked me for the “Rest of the
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